Bumble: An App For Predators

'Dating' apps are a breeding ground for misogynists, sexists and sexual predators and we’ve spent far too long normalising it by laughing it off. I am 100% guilty of this and the proof is all over my blog, all you need to do is look back to my first 10 blogs. Reading my page from… Continue reading Bumble: An App For Predators

New Year Same Me

As I sit in Pret sipping on a can of drink which I massively overpaid for, I can't help but reflect on this year and everything that's happened. 2018 has been the longest and shortest year of my life. Things happened mere months ago that I could've sworn were years in my past. I've faced,… Continue reading New Year Same Me

No Pain, No Game

Jumping on dating apps is pretty much the go to for any recent singleton, I was no exception. I couldn’t wait to see what was available to me. I felt like I’d been handed a gift, albeit a shitty one served in a turd stained app called Tinder. I was desperate to turn guys down… Continue reading No Pain, No Game

Setting Boundaries

Once again I turned to Instagram to guide me in my next blog venture. The results showed that people wanted to know how to set boundaries within an online and real life dating experience. As always, this is a completely informal and opinion led ‘how to’ based off of my own experiences and new tactics… Continue reading Setting Boundaries

Consent Is More Than Saying Yes

Earlier today on my Instagram story I posted a video showing me emptying police evidence bags onto my bed. The intention for this wasn't to cause any harm or to alarm anyone, but for me to continue the journey of processing what happened to me on that night. This is something that has affected my… Continue reading Consent Is More Than Saying Yes